Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Apologies


Alice Hoiyin Lo <hlo@lohoiyin.com>
Jan 15

to Julie, Billy-
Hi Billy & Julie,

Happy New Year. I am writing to apologize for my behaviors during the Christmas holiday. I have no excuse. Only wish you were not inversely affected.

Over the past couple of years, due to problems unresolved in my own life and in our marriage, I have developed progressives depression attacks. At first the depression appeared as passiveness and pessimism. Over time, as time went by and my helplessness deepened, it became aggressive. I have said and done horrible things to Sam in the later stage. It was wrong and inexcusable.

I can't really ask for your understanding, but only want to be as honest as I can.

Going forward, Sam will be heading back to the US. I will continue to here, work and get psychological therapy. My hope is to resolve my depression issues and become a stronger healthier being for our marriage. Although things look grim, I sincerely hope that's not the case that we cannot continue. I cannot make up for the damage I have done, but I will be working towards bettering myself and our circumstances.

Lastly, I want to offer my heartfelt congratulations for the healthy growth of baby Elijah, and the professional success you both achieved in Beijing. I heard Elijah had some ear problem a month ago when mama was there. Hope he's all recovered by now.


Best wishes,

Hoiyin

William Wan <william@williamwan.com>
Jan 17

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Hi Hoiyin,

Thank you for your thoughtful note. Sorry I didn't get back right away. We just got back from Thailand and just now catching up on emails and life.

We just want you to know that above of all, we care about you guys and want the best for you both. And we know it's a very difficult time right now. We'll be thinking of you both as always.

with much love,

Billy & Julie


Alice Hoiyin Lo <hlo@lohoiyin.com>
Jan 17

to William
Hi Billy & Julie,

Many thanks for your thoughts. Hope you had a good trip and hope you are having a great start in the new year. :)

Best wishes,
Hoiyin

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